Help! I am in love with one man n then i wanted to be just friends with another He says he lives me cause hes in a bad marriage but seems to just want sex the first guy says when he comes home he is coming for me Please h

Relationship Questions and AdviceCategory: Is He Right for Me?Help! I am in love with one man n then i wanted to be just friends with another He says he lives me cause hes in a bad marriage but seems to just want sex the first guy says when he comes home he is coming for me Please h
Anonymous asked 2 years ago

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Matthew Coast answered 2 years ago

So, one man you’ve been with is in Afghanistan. The other man you’re talking about is married.
 
Just to create some context and put together a back story here, you’ve sent me a few emails about this guy who is in Afghanistan before. You’ve told me before that all he wants from you is your money. And you keep sending me emails about how you either hate him or love him.
 
And I don’t know why you’re talking to me about this guy who is married. If you really were in love and cared so much about the guy in Afghanistan, you wouldn’t even be asking me about the married man. So, I’m not totally convinced you’re seriously in love with anyone.
 
And you should definitely stay away from the married man unless you just want sex with him. It’s rare that a man will leave his wife for another woman… it’s more likely to happen in a movie than in real life… otherwise he would have already left her.
 
It sounds to me like you’ve got some really bad options here. If I were you, I’d drop contact with both of these men and go find a single, available, emotionally healthy man that you can get into a relationship with and stop messing with these guys who just want to use you.

nm.ridley1988 replied 2 years ago

You are so right Just got caught up in the moment of wanting someone to like me Lessons are learned the hard way I’m just not ready for any of this never quiet got over my 18 years of bad marriage Actually it was 22years just seperated after 18 years he abused our children also