Do older men need women to chase?

Lynn asked 6 months ago

I am divorced, attractive, fit, successful 46 yr old woman who is wondering why the men I meet don\’t pursue me.  I show appropriate interest in them.  They return interest in their words and demeanor.  But then – no follow up!  I thought men like to chase, so I don\’t send them communication first.  I wait for them.  When they are over 50- do the rules change?  Should I make the first move more often?  How long is too long for an expected followup? 

2 Answers
Tabitha Pratt answered 6 months ago

Miss Lynn!
Typically a mans testosterone levels will begin to drop after they reach 50. This may not always affect their pursuit of you though. Men these days may be a little jaded from past marriages, or you are just not being patient enough or not flirting to attract.
Do not chase a male!! No, no, no. 
The first person to speak is always the masculine role. If you want to play the feminine female role, than use only non verbal communication by use of your body, eyes, smile, etc.
Flirt! Flirt! Flirt!

Tabitha Pratt answered 6 months ago

Miss Lynn!
Typically a mans testosterone levels will begin to drop after they reach 50. This may not always affect their pursuit of you though. Men these days may be a little jaded from past marriages, or you are just not being patient enough or not flirting to attract.
Do not chase a male!! No, no, no. 
The first person to speak is always the masculine role. If you want to play the feminine female role, than use only non verbal communication by use of your body, eyes, smile, etc.
Flirt! Flirt! Flirt!
 
p.s. – a female’s success is not a turn on to men – just FYI