Clueless

Shannon asked 3 months ago

I had a boyfriend and things were great. We were getting serious and then day after my birthday he started a fight and we broke up. He sent text saying been there done that.cus I have children! Then about a week later he has a new partner. I dont get it..could he have been seeing her while we were together?? The bad thing is he lives nextdoor!

1 Answers
Tabitha Pratt answered 3 months ago

Shannon sweetheart,
I am sorry that you are going through this with your ex. Truth be told, the only way you can figure out if he was seeing her is to ask him directly. At this stage it does not seem relevant and it will only appear desperate and clingy.
I know it might be hard, but you must not give him anymore of your mental or emotional energy. If you slept with him, it will take a while to get him “out of your system”. Best remedy, go out with anyone who asks you. Get right back into the game (no sex though). I am sure there is a line of guys waiting to take you out.
Buy a Take-A-Number Ticket Dispenser, place it outside of your front door and have fun!
 
much love,
 
T