My friend Anne texted me last night…
I hadn’t heard from her in weeks, but she finally reached out with a simple – but alarming – text:
“Does friends-with-benefits ever turn into love?”
Wow.
I had to stop and really think about that for a minute. (I’m not one to rush to text someone back – I like to give a thoughtful answer.)
So I finally sent her this:
“Are you the one in love? Or are you hoping HE will fall in love?”
I made an assumption there, sure.
But I knew where Anne’s question was coming from.
She fired back this:
“Sigh. I wish I knew if he felt the same…”
It was at this point that I called Anne up and found out that she had made a “booty call” arrangement with a guy she had been out on a few dates with.
They had hit it off in the bedroom, but he still “wanted to see other people.”
So Anne had gone along with this “friends with benefits” arrangement – in the hopes that she could sneak in to a FULL relationship through the back door of being a “FWB.”
I told her that it can happen, but it’s kind of like taking a game like Monopoly, and then changing the rules halfway through.
It’s deceptive in a way. Even if you’re just trying to create a loving relationship…
A guy can feel “tricked” or manipulated if a woman takes an FWB situation and tries to change it into a serious relationship.
Luckily, though, there IS a way to do it –
IF you know how men think about love…
You can trigger a man to feel like he’s falling in love with you – if you know how to make him FEEL in love.
He has to feel something called the “Cupid Effect”
To discover what the “Cupid Effect” is – and why it’s the secret to getting him to finally open up to you –
Go watch this short video:
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