How to Make Him Miss You (Works EVERY Time) – Matthew Coast

Wondering how to make a man miss you?

So has this happened to you before?  Things are going so well in your dating relationship…your man is head over heels in love.  Sex is good, relationship is progressive…

And then all of a sudden communication problems come up.  Your man begins to become distant.  He gets defensive and argues.  Anakin, you’re breaking my heart!  You get the picture.

Don’t believe whatever excuse he gives you about your relationship.  Chances are, the problem in your dating relationship is simple.  These are signs that he’s feeling like less of a man because you’re dominating the relationship and abandoning the feminine charms that got him to notice you in the first place.

But you still hold the power in the relationship.  Always remember that.

Your next goal is to give him the gift of missing you.  I am often asked… does silence make a man miss you? And what is one way to make a guy miss you?

A man will always take for granted a woman who volunteers too much time, who sacrifices too much, who tries too hard to keep the man so “happy”.  She ends up controlling his every move and men resent it.

The woman who acts like this never gives a man the chance to fully appreciate her. You need to make him miss you.

By letting him live more independently, letting him feel free, and letting him miss you, you will make him realize how much he cares.

Once a man learns that the woman he thinks he loves doesn’t want to control him or stifle his work or fun, he begins to realize that he wants to be with her.  The man doesn’t “need” her but wants her company in his life.  He craves her company.  That’s what brings him closer, rather than sending him farther away. He realizes that he does miss you.

How to Make a Man Miss You and Want You Back in His Life

So how to make him miss you? If you are wondering how to make men miss being with you, you are in the right place. Let’s discuss 5 different things you can do to make sure he misses you—and misses you with a purpose.  Namely, that your man realizes life without you just isn’t as much fun. Let him miss you and your dating relationship will improve.

For the best results that make him miss you, try giving him some space before he begins to become defensive and talks about breaking up.  But even if your relationship has gone way past that, and he’s rejected you, you can still use some of these tips to make him miss you.

1. Stop calling, stop texting, just stop!

I know, your natural instinct is to help him, nurture him and figure out what the problem is when he’s acting weird.  But this is male behavior and it’s driving him in the opposite direction.  Your instincts are to communicate more, but what your man ultimately wants is to communicate less.

Silence DOES make a man miss you. He wants to feel something and the best way to do that is to give him the gift of missing you.

This is something I call, “The Contrast Principle.” Humans only truly appreciate what they have when they experience not having it. He can’t miss you if you’re always trying to call, talk to him, and always in his life.

Let him feel a little blue and realize he was happier when you were in his life.  This means, cut him off completely.  Follow these tips on how to make a guy miss you. No spying, no text messages, no commenting or social media-liking him.  Just cut the communication off completely with the man.  Your silence will speak volumes and he will usually initiate contact again, within a few days, weeks or months… depending on the situation of the dating relationship.

2. Want to Make a Guy Miss You? Always Leave Him Wanting More

Your first instinct is probably to talk all night and fall in love with his charming voice all over again, right?  Wrong move.  Besides calling too soon or calling too much, the next mistake a woman makes is to talk too much with their man rather than ending the conversation a little sooner than usual. If you want to know how to make him miss you, leave him wanting more of you in his life.

In fact, if you really want him to miss you, end the conversation with him first and don’t let it drag on until you get back that intimacy you lost.  Your man doesn’t deserve that intimacy, not right now.

Keep him waiting and wanting it, and give him something to look forward to. That’s how you will make your man miss you, even in a long distance dating relationship.

3. Make Him Miss You By Bringing Back the Mystery And Suspense to Your Relationship

If it seems like your man is getting bored while dating, all this really means is that he wants more mystery, more games, something new and more fun.  Maybe he hasn’t matured into wanting a Serious Adult Relationship yet.  If that’s the case, don’t try to persuade him or “sell him” on this S.A.R.  Give him more of the fun and positive associations he is enjoying by having you in his life.

This might be as simple as not sharing everything you’re thinking or feeling and avoiding telling him everything that he might want to know…or even what he asks about your life.  Be unpredictable.  Rather than let him get used to your routine, challenge him with new activities and don’t let him become comfortable in your presence.  Remind him when dating, anything can happen! Try new things, break the routine and keep things fun.

4. If You Really Want Him to Miss You… Say NO!

Guys do it… and dammit, women should be able to do it too.  In other words, to make him miss you, don’t always be available for him by constantly saying “YES” or “OK”.  He wants his space so that means he does NOT get privileges of calling you, getting a prompt response to his text or asking you to go out when he feels the whim.  He has to earn back that “high priority” status for your relationship.  Make other plans so that he will start to remember how you used to be available for him, but now you’ve moved on with life and are keeping busy  without him.

And for the best results, be busy.  To make him miss you, don’t be playing games and hiding behind a phone.  Go out with your friends and have fun in life again, away from your man.  Do something good for the community or take up a fun, new hobby.  Being unavailable some of the time is going to make you feel better and drive him a little crazy.

Oh yeah and one more sneaky move…post about all your new adventures on social media, where you KNOW he’s stalking you.  Let him see what a good time you’re having without him by posting plenty of life photos and make him miss you.

5. Move on with your life… it’s the only way to ensure he puts the brakes on and says “wait!”

Lastly, replace his presence with somebody / something else in your life!  If you need a date for the big show then bring a friend or a new guy that seems interesting.  It’s not really a jealousy game…it’s just called moving on with your life.  If you miss doing things with him on Saturday night, take up a new hobby that keeps you busy so that you don’t feel bad.

You’re letting him know that things have come to this in your dating relationship, a turning point.  Either you’re going to stay friends (without benefits!) or you’re going to get back together and start dating again.  But your man has to know that it’s not going to work both ways.  You’re not going to “wait for him” and sit idly by as life moves on.  You should move on with life and if he really wants you in his life, he will initiate contact and let you know that he misses you.  Let him be the first to call or text.

Never underestimate the power of absence and time to make a man miss you.  I know most people quote “absence makes the heart grow fonder”…but maybe the singer Passenger who sang the hit song “Let Her Go” makes a better point.  It’s good to be missed by your man.

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‘Cause you only need the light when it’s burning low

Only miss the sun when it starts to snow

Only know you love her when you let her go

Only know you’ve been high when you’re feeling low

Only hate the road when you’re missing home

Only know you love her when you let her go

Make Him Miss, Value And Appreciate You Like Never Before

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Talk soon,

Matthew Coast

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