Expert Dating Tips: How to Get a Guy to Like You

If you meet a guy (or already know one) and you want to make him pay more attention to you so that it can possibly lead to a dating relationship, read this guide on how to make a guy like you very carefully.

A lot of women accidentally push men away in relationships when they’re attempting to pull guys in closer, and the women don’t even realize they’re doing it. Women are taught how to make guys like them from a young age, but unfortunately, those tactics and advice can sometimes have the opposite effect in dating relationships. You can easily make him feel less attracted to you instead of more. If you like a guy, it’s best to follow expert advice on attracting good men.

In fact, if a man isn’t even slightly attracted to you, all of your attempts to connect with him more or deeper will actually backfire and make it less likely that the guy will want to be with you in a long term dating relationship.

The first thing you need to do when attracting men is…

Stop Using Love and Attraction Strategies that Don’t Work with Men

First, I want to warn you about some dating techniques that you may be using to attract men that are more likely to push guys away than make them more attracted to you.

The first attraction strategy that you might be tempted to use on guys is something I call, “The Super Nice Girl.”

When you’re trying to make friends with new people, an effective strategy is to be sweet, nice, and kind. This often shows interest and desire for a relationship.

And it would make sense that if you want a guy to be attracted to you that you might want to use a similar strategy… maybe even taking it up a notch when getting a guy you like.

This dating strategy can only work once you’re already in a relationship with a guy… if it’s toned down a bit. Before that, it just comes off as too much too soon in relationships and that pushes guys away from wanting to date you.

Don’t Make a Friends with Benefits Relationship

If you act this way towards a guy before you’ve created attraction with him, you’re more likely to make him want to distance himself from you than you are to get him to like you more.

If you are wondering how to get a guy to like you, you are going to need to change your approach to the relationship.

This can only work once you’re already in a relationship with a guy… if it’s toned down a bit. Before that, it just comes off as too much too soon.

The second ineffective strategy that I want to warn you about is the “friend with benefits” attraction technique.

This is attempting to make a guy like you more by seducing him and giving him sex.

Statistics have shown that taking a “friend with benefits” type relationship and turning it into a commitment works less than 1 out of 9 times in dating and marriage.

While being with a man sexually may make YOU feel closer and more connected to him, guys can be in a casual relationship with a woman for years and never feel like she’s anything more to him than a sexual partner. A guys expectations for the relationship can be completely different than what the woman was wanting.

Don’t Confess How You Feel and Your Love

And the last dating technique that you need to avoid with a guy you like is something I call, “the confession.”

The confession is when you tell a guy how you feel about him in an attempt to get him to see how wonderful the two of you could be together and how you would complete each other in a relationship.

What you may not know is that, to a guy, when you express your feelings for him like this, he feels like you’re beginning to pursue him and that you want to date him.

And while the guy might be flattered by your interest, when he feels like you’re starting to pursue him, he’ll feel like you’re coming on too strong and completely lose any interest in pursuing you. You could easily make him not interested.

If a guy doesn’t pursue you, he won’t feel invested in your potential relationship enough to ever commit to a life with you.

These three strategies will make you come across as “needy” to men, even if you don’t feel that way and aren’t trying to push the guy away.

If you want to get a guy to feel attracted to you in a way that will lead to deeper and more fulfilling relationships, you need to learn…

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How to Get a Guy to Like You and Want You in His Life the Right Way

After teaching in the dating industry for over a decade and helping thousands of women get into loving, committed, lasting relationships with their dream guys, I’ve found that there’s something very specific that you need to do if you want a guy to feel attracted to you in a way that will lead to something more. 

Here is expert dating advice on how to get a guy to like you:

You need to connect with his emotions.

No amount of convincing, pleading, begging, or sex will ever get a guy to like you and want something more with you… IF you don’t also connect with his heart. The dating game is about connecting with guys in meaningful ways that make them interested in you and build trust.

Men need to feel like you’re “relationship material.” And most men can usually tell if a woman is someone he could be with in a lasting relationship within the first few minutes of meeting her.

So if you want him to feel like you’re exactly who he’s looking for, you need to make sure that you aren’t accidentally sabotaging your chances with him.

If you’d like to find out what’s stopping you from attracting the right guy into a committed, lasting relationship, take my quiz.

It’s free and based on your answers to just a few questions, I can help you determine exactly what your biggest obstacle is in attracting great men and what you need to do differently in order to attract the man and the relationship you want in your life.

After you take the quiz, I will give some dating tips and advice that can help you overcome your obstacles and attract the guy you want.

Click here to take the quiz and discover what’s stopping you from meeting Mr. Right

Disclaimer: Results will vary, and you should not use this information as a substitute for help from a licensed professional. Good luck!