Author Archives: Matthew Coast

Why Men and Women Can’t Be Friends

Is it true what they say that a man and woman can never be friends because inevitably, some day, sex will become an issue? Many with first hand experience of falling for a “platonic friend” might be inclined to agree. It’s hard not to fall in love with someone of the opposite sex once you…

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What to Wear on a Date to Send the Right Signals

Well you’ve made plans for a date—now the big question is what to wear? In this modern age of feminism, millennial culture, and hipster logic, does it even matter anymore what you wear? Of course it does! Much of dating is non-verbal, and while you may remember the importance of gestures and posture, it’s easy…

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What is the Best Place to Meet Guys?

Contrary to what some people say, no, it’s not easy to meet guys just because you’re single and looking. Sure, everyone has a friend they want to set you up with. Sure, a lot of women could just walk into a bar and get offers from a few gents, creeps and jocks in no time.…

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5 Signs A Guy Wants You To Chase Him

To be honest, MOST guys like to chase—not be chased. And most of the advice we share here is geared towards women who want men to chase them and who want to attract an outgoing and romantic type of guy. But it wouldn’t be honest to say that you should never chase a guy. Some…

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5 Rules for Friends with Benefits

Friends with benefits seems like such an easy and attractive deal, right? They sure made it look easy on Seinfeld and Friends. You just have all the sex you want, respect each other, make it clear that there is no romance, and go about living your life. It’s a form of safer sex (as opposed…

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Why Men Don’t Want to Get Married

The very essence of man is to hunt. He’s incapable of being faithful because he is biologically programmed to procreate and attract more women…yada yada yada something about preserving his genes. Yeah we’ve all heard this about men and thankfully we are outgrowing such antiquated notions. While there are always rules to the exception, the…

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If I Stop Chasing Him Will He Notice?

One of the first questions that comes up when women learn how to “date smart” with men is… Now that I’ve stopped chasing him…how long do I wait? Will he notice? Should I call him or send more signals? This may seem confusing at first but the answer is easy to figure out once you…

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How to Make a Man Value You More

There’s nothing more upsetting than a man you really like taking you for granted. It can be downright annoying behavior if it’s little things—like being self-centered or oblivious to your needs. Or it can even be heartbreaking if he cheats on you, abuses you or manipulates you to the point of tears. There is only…

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How to Get a Guy to Commit After Sleeping with Him

Uh oh! It looks like you took a calculated risk and it didn’t quite pay off. Sure, he still likes you after he slept with you. But…he’s not exactly falling in love. He’s not acting all sweet, cutesy and making engagement plans. He may even seem strangely detached, cold or even a little too eager…

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4 Ways to Make Him Weak and Crazy About You

It’s no fun at all when a man is kind of interested in you and sort of attracted to you. You want to SEE, FEEL and SENSE that he’s crazy about you. You want a man to be weak at the knee and gawking a little inside that he’s lucky enough to have you. You…

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