If you’re struggling to keep a man in love with you, there may be a lot more that you can do about it than you realize…
A lot of women accidentally cause men to fall out of love with them and they don’t even know it. Here are the 7 most common reasons why men fall out of love:
1. He feels like you’re more of an enemy than a partner to him.
There are two ways you can be in a relationship with a man… a power struggle or a partnership. If you want him to stay in love with you, he needs to feel like you’re on the same team.
Do you insult him, criticize him and blame him… or do you support him, fight on his side, and help him when he needs it?
2. He feels like his path and purpose don’t align with who you are.
No matter how much you may think that men don’t change in relationships, most of them do. If he has a path and direction that his life is going, he’s going to change.
And if he doesn’t think that you fit into that picture of who he is becoming, he’ll begin to doubt his reasons for staying in a relationship with you. You can prevent this by showing him that you align with his path and purpose in life.
3. He feels like he’s better off being single and alone than in a relationship with you.
Studies on relationships have shown that the number one reason people break up is because they feel more negative emotions around their partner than positive ones.
If you want to keep a man around, you need to be a source of positive feelings for him. You need to make him feel good when you’re around. You need to bring light and happiness into his life… not all the time, just more positive than negative.
4. He doesn’t feel like you respect and admire him as a man.
You may not know how important this is to a man. Respect and admiration are as important to men as love is to women.
Could you imagine being in a relationship with a man who doesn’t love you? That’s how a man feels in a relationship with a woman who doesn’t respect and admire him.
5. You never had a foundation for a strong relationship.
A “friend with benefits” type relationship is NOT a stage from meeting a man to marriage. If you want a man to stay in love with you, you need to build the foundation of a strong relationship with him.
This means having boundaries, creating a deep emotional connection with him, and being who he wants for a long-term, committed relationship.
6. You stopped doing the things that made him fall in love with you initially.
You don’t have to always be the same person in a relationship. Everyone grows and changes to some extent.
What you shouldn’t change is how you relate to and connect with him. He fell in love with you because of the way you relate to him. And he’ll stay in love with you if you continue to relate to him in that same way.
7. You don’t meet his physical AND emotional needs.
Most women think that sex is just a physical need to men. But that’s not completely true.
Studies done with men have found that sex is as much or more of an emotional need for a man to feel worthy as it is a physical one.
If you want to keep a man in love with you, you need to know how to connect with his emotional side. You need to be able to connect with his heart.
Most Women Push Men Away and Don’t Even Know It!
I’ve been teaching in the dating industry for over a decade and it should come as no surprise that men and women are wired differently.
One of the biggest issues I see with the women I coach is that they’re pushing men away without even realizing it.
Years of exposure to bad dating advice and society’s narrow focus on quick fix dating solutions has left women single and heartbroken, thinking maybe they just weren’t meant for happily ever after.
Fortunately, you don’t have to be one of those women.
If you’re struggling to with a man who is pulling away or losing interest in you, I’ve got something very exciting for you to see.
A friend of mine, Felicity Keith, is a 42 year old soccer mom who came across something that will basically ensure that you regain your man’s interest and get him obsessively thinking about you when you’re not around.
And it works without ever even touching him. You just HAVE to hear her story, it’s pretty amazing.
She basically mastered the art of using words to trigger a man’s desire for her that makes them practically beg to get into a committed relationship with you.
You have to go check this out…