Headlines really do make all the difference between having a receptive audience…or an audience that doesn’t even click on your ad. The truth is, we’re all inclined to “scroll down” and ignore most lines of information. Not only are we easily bored with matter-of-fact statements, but we’re also getting sick of “click bait” from social media—you know, articles that promise everything but deliver nothing of any substance.
So in order to stand out with your online profile, and attract higher caliber men who will appreciate you, you really have to start by creating the perfect headline. The headline is the “hook” that catches your ideal man’s interest. But one thing you don’t want to do is promise the world and fall short of expectations. Instead, follow these six strategies and play it cool.
1. Know who you want and communicate that in the headline for a strong call to action.
If you know the type of man you’re looking for, describing him in a few words will attract that type of man to you. Right away, he’ll be thinking “She’s talking about me!” On the other hand, if you have a headline that doesn’t really say anything about your IDEAL MAN, but just discusses you, fewer men will be motivated to immediately write you. Every man wants to feel needed…so why not start talking about him in the headline?
For example: “I’m looking for a rebellious bad boy who’s still into nerd things. Does this sound like you?”
2. Accentuate your most unique qualities and skill sets. Be interesting, different and rare.
Men will pay closer attention to women who seem unique and different from all the other profiles. If you scroll through the competition, you may notice a lot of those girls are preoccupied with what they don’t want, or simply provide a list of the things they enjoy. Instead, show your VALUE to another man by discussing what makes you wonderfully different. Focusing on the incentive you offer him, something that no one else can really match, makes him instantly feel that special connection. You’re different and that’s what will get him chasing you.
For example: “I’m an award winning chef!” or “I can romance you in two different languages.”
3. Showcase your sense of humor!
The percentage of men who disdain women with a sense of humor…is remarkably low. Men love to laugh. And women who are funny are a joy to live with. So if you’re running out of ideas, go for the easy and adorable joke. Talk about your dog or cat in a funny way, or say something outrageous and absurd. He’ll be impressed that you’re fearless enough to go for a joke, when all the competition is trying so hard to be serious and playing hard to get.
For example: “I’m not perfect, but my dog thinks I’m the best in the world!”
4. Go full brainiac—and welcome those college graduates.
If you’re looking for smart, don’t bother sending “light messages”. Go for the gusto! Show him your intelligence rather than just assuring him “I’m a smart person and went to college!” Don’t just quote scientists and celebrities either, that’s been done to death. Instead, say something profound…a principle or lesson we’ve all learned in study. A strong statement that says in a subtle way: “You really have to be this smart to have a change with me.” Intelligent men will be fascinated and provoked. They will immediately want to prove their worth.
For example: “If Tesla had been afraid of trying…what would happen to poor Edison?!”
5. Tell him how much fun you’ll have.
Most women online give their list of do’s and don’ts, and sure, it helps! But it mostly just filters out the wrong type of guy, at the expense of ATTRACTING the right type of guy. So instead of wasting time on idiots (who are probably going to harass you anyway, so they’re unavoidable) focus instead on showing your ideal man how much fun you’ll have together. Talk about your ideal first date. Talk about where you might be six months from now. Or talk about other fun experiences you hope to have.
Don’t just wait for common ground to be shared…anticipate it and post it. If you’re waiting for the perfect moment to discuss what common interests you share with a man, you’ll be waiting for a long time! The perfect moment may or may not come, so save time by posting what common ground you expect to find and how great it will be.
For example: “Let’s go dance the salsa!” or “Soon, we’ll be on an exotic Hawaiian
vacation and it will be awesome!”
6. Appeal to his curiosity by offering to solve a dilemma.
What better way to pique the curiosity of a man than by presenting him with an unanswered question and then offering to answer it for him? This is what they do with newspaper and article headlines, and it really works. Men like the idea of learning secrets, or finding out about a mysterious incident, or discussing 3 or 4 ways that (something positive happens).
Just apply the same principle of catchy news headlines to dating.
For example: “Find out three reasons why men are usually attracted to me…and why they’re WRONG!” or “Just to warn you, I figured out the secret of Stongehenge.” Or “Ask me about what bizarre happened on my trip to Chernobyl!”
Developing a good headline requires balancing your sense of fun and risk-taking with presenting your “best face forward”. You want to appear spontaneous and fun but you also want to show intelligence—an awareness of what your ideal man wants from you.
Too many women today fill their profiles with negativity and bad energy. Be different…be fun and EXPECT positive interactions from the men who write you. Give them an opening in your profile, helping them to initiate a witty and flirty conversation. Not only will they appreciate it, they’ll try much harder to impress you now that they have an angle.
Just a few simple adjustments in your dating approach can make all the difference.
How your online dating profile BETRAYS you
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This presentation might be a little difficult to watch at first (as you discover how you totally accidentally committed a huge SIN when you wrote your online profile). . . But when you learn the “secret formula” Mike’s created. . . that teaches you how to “tune” your online profile so the man you’re dreaming of literally salivates when he sees it. . . fantasizes about what it would be like to love you. . . would do anything to make you his. . .
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Talk soon,
Matthew Coast
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