Have you ever wondered why men love dirty talk so much?
Have you ever been asked to talk dirty to a guy before and NOT known what to say?
Have you ever fumbled around with it or avoided it altogether?
The truth is that most men LOVE a woman who knows how to talk dirty to them. And understanding this gives you an unfair advantage with him.
It’s kind of like having advanced, ninja, sexy skills that make him putty in your presence.
Here are 4 reasons why dirty talk drives men wild…
1. He Wants a Lady in the Streets and a Freak in the Sheets
There’s something about the contradiction of a ladylike persona in public but a sexy talking, love goddess in the bed that gives men a big charge of excitement.
It’s like the two of you have a dirty little secret that nobody else knows about. He’s the only one who gets that naughty side of you.
He feels like he’s the one who inspires your uninhibited side and that’s intoxicating to his ego.
Even if you’re not the shining star of grace and politeness out in public, seeing you transform into his dirty little vixen gives him an exciting thrill to fantasize about.
And being with you heightens his senses and makes the entire experience just that more arousing for him.
2. It Makes Him Feel Like a Rockstar Sex God
When you’re letting loose a string and moans, screams and a variety of sexy play-by-play dirty directives, you’re showing him just how much you f#$%ing LOVE what he’s doing to you.
It tells him in no uncertain terms that he’s rocking your world… and men love this!
They’re hard-wired to please us sexually. This goes back to the cave man days.
In modern life, there’s so much communication going on and mixed signals that it can get in the way of him knowing he’s doing his job of satisfying you.
Talking dirty cuts through all of this and gives him a clear message.
3. Your Confidence Seduces Him
A confident woman who knows how to use dirty talk to get what she wants in bed seduces a man’s mind.
He’s helplessly drawn to a woman who isn’t afraid to express herself sexually. He doesn’t have to play guessing games, he knows exactly what you want.
Your use of dirty talk lets him know that you aren’t uptight or inhibited… a wild, sexy ride is in store for both of you!
4. Enthusiasm is the #1 Sexual Turn On For Men
You may not know this but enthusiasm is consistently ranked as the #1 thing that makes a man feel like sex is awesome.
A quiet sex partner could be misunderstood as bored or distracted. This can put a huge damper on the sexual mood.
He ends up worrying whether he’s pleasing you which can bring up his insecurities, instead of focusing on the sexual experience he’s having.
When you’re talking dirty, not only does he KNOW you’re completely present and experiences it, he also knows beyond a shadow of a doubt that you’re enjoying it.
This type of engagement between you two validates that he’s pleasing you, which if you don’t remember from #2, makes him feel like a sexual Rockstar!
These four reasons help activate chemicals in his brain that hit the biggest triggers for his sexual drive.
Of course, you may not feel comfortable launching into a dirty talking frenzy… and if that’s true, you’re not alone.
If you feel shy or you want to know exactly how to talk dirty to your man, let me show you…
Don’t let your fears stop you from getting the passion and excitement of dirty talk in your sex life.
3 Easy Ways to Start Talking Dirty
Here are three easy ways to ease into sexy talking…
1. Start With a Text
Here’s an easy one that you can build up your confidence with it.
Start by saying…
“I can’t stop thinking about…”
Followed by something like…
“you naked” or “the way you satisfied me last night” or “how bad I want you right now.”
These help you get your point across without being totally explicit.
It’s a great place to start.
2. Give Him a Naughty Play-By-Play
When you’re having sex, describe aloud how much you enjoy what he’s doing.
Tell him how good he feels.
Tell him that you don’t want him to stop.
Give him directions on what to do next.
3. Take a Deep Breath And Let It Fly!
Try getting into a character…
What would the naught vixen version of you say to him?
Get into that role and don’t censor whatever sexy words come out of your mouth!
If you want to get over any shyness you feel about talking dirty, check out my video below:
If you want your man to be 100% focused on you…
Fantasizing about you during the day. . .
Counting down the minutes until he gets to see you again. . .
You don’t have to kill yourself at the gym.
You don’t have to buy a bunch of sexy lingerie (though there’s nothing wrong with doing that if you want.)
Nope, if you want your guy to become sexually and emotionally addicted to you, all you have to do is learn to TALK DIRTY and make love to his mind.
I’ll coach you step-by-step on exactly how to talk dirty to your guy and get comfortable saying naught things that are guaranteed to drive him wild!