20 Questions to Ask a Guy That Deepen His Desire For You

Whether you’re dating a guy, living with a guy, or are newly engaged, you have the same challenge ahead of you.

It’s time to anticipate your man’s needs.

No, this is not about becoming a submissive woman or a perfect Stepford Housewife, none of that stuff. I simply mean the reciprocity of any relationship. He provides something valuable to you and in return, he hopes you will fulfill certain needs that he has—or that he may not even know that he has.

I’m not talking about his sexual desires. Sure, sex is fun…it’s easy to figure out, it’s fantasy fulfillment. And yes, the more effort you put into creating real life fantasies, the better it can be.

But what I want to talk about now is an even deeper need that every man has and how meeting this need makes a man fall in love and makes him want to commit.

And that is to emotionally stimulate him. You can do this through the art of conversation.

This is what makes him want to marry. Want to live together, want to go exclusive. And the best way to make it happen is to ask DEEP QUESTIONS.

Yes, stimulating your man’s emotions (even more important than stimulating his intellect) intensifies the relationship, because you not only make him think but you make him feel.

I’m going to give you 20 questions to ask a man that will INSTANTLY make him feel something, think deeply, and just love talking to you. These questions will deepen his desire for your company and make him realize no one else stimulates his mind like YOU.

1. What is your happiest memory of all time?

A great line, one that forces him to think happy thoughts and reflect back on the best moments of his life. And now, he’s sharing it with you!

2. If you were super rich, what would be the first five things you do?

A question that appeals to his good moral character, since you challenge him to think about life—and beyond limitations. Challenge him ambition and get him thinking about his future.

3. If you could get rid of all your fears instantly, what would you do?

Another clever question, since this makes him share some of his fantasies and dreams that haven’t happened because of his inhibitions. A man wants to feel as if he can tell you anything.

4. What is the worst thing that happened to you that turned out to be a blessing in disguise?

Great opportunity to have him become “the teacher” and explain to you a coming of age moment where he learned something.

5. If you could send a message to the you of 20 years ago what would you say?

Excellent opportunity to hear about his regrets, dreams and unrealized ambitions – goals you can encourage him to try to reach again.

6. What makes you feel most alive?

Be sure to do this experience with him for positive associations.

7. What is your idea of a perfect day and night?

Great for studying what he actually expects when you start living together.

8. What are you like when you don’t get your way?

Most guys will answer these “flaw” questions proudly. It’s a good opportunity for you to study their difficult quirks.

9. How open-minded are you about life? What are you not open minded about?

Men who are open-minded tend to be easier to live with. Men set in their ways and beliefs, can be a bit more challenging. Figure out what his most important values are, and try not to push too hard at these.

10. When you feel distant from your partner what do you do?

A good way to let him know what you expect from him, intimacy-wise, when there are arguments.

11. How do you express love?

Great question and it challenges him to think deeper—gestures beyond the physical and monetary. Find out how he expresses passion in life.

12. If you were a time traveler, what year would you travel to?

Nice way to see the “ideal time period” your man thinks about, where he feels he fits in.

13. What was your favorite toy or video game when you were a kid?

Bond with him by sharing memories! A man recalling his childhood memories will feel vulnerable fast!

14. What’s your favorite book, movie, song or TV series?

Find out a little bit more about what’s on his mind and what topics he relates to. This can be very indicative of the way he sees the world, how he feels about life, and what he wants to accomplish.

15. What’s your darkest, most taboo fantasy ever?

Be sure to let him feel free to describe his most taboo fantasy. Even if you can’t give it to him exactly, he will feel a sense of relief from just being able to say it in front of you.

16. If you could do life over again what skill / career would you try for?

Good question that reveals his character, beyond what he does for a living. Sometimes a man’s hobby or charity work IS his passion, and not always his job.

17. If you could meet anyone throughout history, who would you choose and why?

Who does he admire? Who does he strive to be like?

18. What’s the worst job you’ve ever had? Or, what’s the funniest thing you’ve ever seen?

Great for sharing a laugh.

19. What life lesson do you want to teach other people? (Or hand down to your children)

Give him the chance to share his wisdom.

20. What was your favorite family vacation?

Nice way to get him to talk about his family—and get used to the idea of introducing you to each one!

These 20 questions are great conversation starters. A man’s real NEED from a partner is that he is emotionally stimulated. He wants to feel something and open-ended questions like these help him get in touch with his feelings and associate you as a friend who he can talk to about anything. That’s where you want to be, because he will fall in love with you when he realizes you know so much about him and he’s always comfortable in your presence.

The Secret Words That Make His Heart Yours

Today I want to give you some words that you can tell your man that will make him want to give you the relationship you’ve always dreamed he’d have with you…

These words form something I call a “Love Frame” that make a man feel like it’s his mission in life to treat you like a queen.

If you’re struggling to get your man to “step up” and give you the romance you’ve always wanted, you need to watch this video right now…

Click here to watch the video <<

These words will work on him even if…

…your man is pulling away from you or ignoring you completely…

…you think you got intimate with him too soon…

…or you feel like your situation is hopeless…

Because once you understand it…

You’ll be able to trigger a flood of emotion throughout his body that melts away all resistance…

Making him see you as the perfect woman for him…

A woman that he wants to pursue, fight for, and be with from now until the end of time…

Click here to learn the words that make him yours <<

Talk soon,

Matthew Coast

P.S. Try out these seemingly innocent yet strangely powerful words on the man in your life and seem how quickly things change with him…

Making him feel more love for you, more of a connection to you, and more of a desire to please you than he’s ever felt for anyone before in his life.

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